小聚
年过完，我就开始准备签证
我的签证准备的很顺利
找了一个中介
其实实操能力强的完全可以根据小红书上面的指导跟着准备
3.12植树节的日子我种下了种子提交了文件
3.21日我的签证就到手了
暖心的是年初几正常开工的几日
因为在老家，所以我去长沙办理体检和海牙认证
朋友Ling我们一起去长沙玩了几天
我们是高中同学，后大学毕业后同在深圳
后面她又选择了回老家教书
分开后偶尔联系
而这么突如其来的几日相处
也是之前没有的
但却格外的舒服
这些年她的工作生活城市也一直在被动
生了娃，在有孕期间还实现考研，生娃后读研
还有种种2个家庭中的发生
我觉得这就是一种体验和经历
她自己想做的一一的在实现
不管哪种选择
都有自己的缘由
顺水推舟
按着自己的路径走
总会有自己的一条道
家家有本难念的经
做好自己就是最好的生活
甚是感恩有这种好友的相聚
A Small reunion
After the New Year celebrations ended, I began preparing my visa application.
Everything went smoothly, I hired an agent to help.
Though anyone with strong practical skills could probably follow the step-by-step guides on Xiaohongshu application and handle it themselves.
On March 12th, Arbor Day, I planted a seed-submitting my documents.
On March 21st, my visa was approved.
What warmed my heart was that, during the first few working days after the holiday, I traveled to Changsha from my hometown to complete my medical exam and Hague apostille.
My friend Ling and I spent a few days exploring Changsha together.
We’ve known each other since high school and later both ended up in Shenzhen after college.
Eventually, she choose to return to our hometown to be a teacher.
After we went our separate days, we kept in touch sporadically.
This sudden and unexpected stretch of time together was something we hadn’t had before—yet it felt incredibly natural and comfortable.
Over the years, her life has seen many shifts— work, city, circumstances.
She had a child, pursued her master’s degree while pregnant, and continued here studies after giving birth.
And then there were all the happenings within two families.
To me, these all experiences— life unfolding.
She’s been steadily realizing the things she wants to do.
No matter what choices she makes, there’s always a reason behind them.
Going with the flow, following her own path— she’ll always find her way.
Every family has it’s own struggles.
Living as your best self is the greatest way to navigate life.
I’m deeply grateful for reunions like this with such a good friends.
Specialty drive of Changsha, my brother prepared for us. ;)